Thursday, June 9, 2016

Mard ki Pasli

We were having dinner with me and My in laws as they visit us during  summer - Conversations revolved around how women don't do this , that or the other - I said to my father in law - A man  just needs to realize this - Aurat mard ki  pasli say paida hui  hai  --- Aur hazar koshish k baad bhi wo kabhi  seedhi nahi ho sakti  , han usay seedha karnay k chakkar mein usko tora ja sakta hai magar seedha nahi kia ja sakta  - Apna waqt aur energy unhain seedha karnay ki bajaye usko samajhnay aur Muhabat karnay mein laga lein  tou shaid Mardon ki life bhi asaan ho jaye gee.

Unhon ney zore say qahqaha lagaya aur bolay wah ye baat tou hum nay  kabhi sochi he nahi ?

Friday, June 3, 2016

Clarksburg k Homeless Baba Jee







Safaid Darhi aur ghehri neeli ankhon walay ye baba ji  ( shayed late sixties ) mein hongay  apnay bhari backpack k sath mujhay aksar Post office k aas pass nazar atay hain . Wo kabhi gariyon ki taraf dekh rahay hotay hain kabhi ghour say zameen ka Jaiza laitay paye jatay hain  ...Kuch mast malang type  . Mein unkay pass say bohat baar guzar chuki hon -He doesn't seem to look at me at all . Kafi ajib see baat hai kiu kah I am the only “exotic looking female "around here after all !
  I mean kahnay mein kia harj hai :)


Pichlay haftay mujhay Lunch break mein walk karnay ka shouq sawar hua to meinay socha mein iss walk k bahanay kuch  groceries bhi lay Aoon. Mein sabziyan aur phal uthaye wapis aa rahi thee kah meinay Baba jee ko phir post office k bahar khara dekha - wo humaisha ki tarah kisi duur cheez pay nazar jamaye kharay thay.. Aj baat kar k rahon gee  inn say ,  ye irada  dil mein mazboot kia aur unkay nazdeek a kah meinay unsay pucha --- Do you need anything sir ? Jawab aya   "No I don't need anything" baray sakoon say unhon ney apna backpack dosray kandhay pay muntaqil kia aur phir ghour say Zameen ko dekhnay lagay . Agar wo kehtay mujhay bhook lagi hai ya paisay chahyen tou zaroor dey deti. Laikin wo baba Jee to buhat  "dignified " niklay  bolay " I am a homeless person not a beggar , but thank you for your concern " Meinay unhain "No problem " kaha aur chalna shroh kar dia... sath he meinay apni Tashee bhi ki kah " Har Homeless Druggie nahi hota “ --- Laikin  such tou ye  hai  kah  saray Clarksburg  k homeless  -- Baba jee jaisey bhi nahi hotay !


 Ab kabhi guzartay huay wo nazar atay hain tou aik shanasai ki mutual respect wali muskurahat unkay chehray pay nazar zaroor ati hai  Halankah Baba jee buhat "aloof " type hain inn ko mein yad hon buhat bari baat hai  warna wo tou kisi ki taraf Nazar utha kar bhi nahi dekhtay! Aur ye bhi mumkin hai  kah ye sirf meri Khush fehmi ho !